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THROUGH THE STORM

Some of my closest friendships bonds till date are those formed in my secondary school days. We were few and tight, everybody knew everybody. Many years after, we still relieve the experiences and fond memories that we shared in those days. A lot of the character traits that have helped us stay above board many years down the line were instilled into us in those days by our wonderful teachers and a Principal like no other. In its first year of establishment, students in three different grades were introduced at the same time. My set was the lowest of the three. We experienced a lot of hardship in those early days because of non-existent basic infrastructure. Hurricane lanterns were essential commodities because we needed them for illumination in the night. The term ‘midnight candle’ was very real to us. To get potable water, we all had to take turns at the only hand pump in the school…that was really an experience because sometimes you could exert a lot of energy in pumping the water and you will be blessed with only a few drops of water. Even though we faced all these hardships and more, we always looked forward to returning to school at the end of each school holiday period. During those days, the experience was unmatched by any other and the people we were with made everything all the more worth the while.

When there’s a greater cause, the temporary pain and struggles are greatly diminished and become insignificant in the scheme of things – we only need to keep our eyes on that ‘greater cause’. The road to where we are headed may be filled with bumps, potholes and dark patches, but we can always count on the grace of God to abound in our weakest moments. His promises are sure and steadfast. He said:

  “When you go through deep waters, I will be with you. When you go through rivers of difficulty, you will not drown. When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flames will not consume you.” Isaiah 43:2 (NLT)

Remembering these unfailing promises as well as past victories will help us keep our heads above the storms when they come. We brave the storms with joy just like Habakkuk testified.

“Fig trees may no longer bloom, or vineyards produce grapes; olive trees may be fruitless, and harvest time a failure; sheep pens may be empty, and cattle stalls vacant but I will still celebrate because the LORD God is my Savior.” Habakkuk 3:17-18 (CEV)

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When we are in the middle of those stormy days, it’s difficult to steady our ship, the gust often obscures our vision and makes it hard for us to see far enough and we can’t perceive what God is doing. In those times, these lines of the song – Way Maker by Sinach – are very instructive:

“Even when I don’t see it, You’re working                                                                                 Even when I don’t feel it, You’re working                                                                                      You never stop, You never stop working”

We will work hard, we will do everything that we need to do, we will pray hard and we will wait with joy. This ties in nicely with a piece I wrote in the past: WHILE WAITING…

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INFORM YOUR FEARS

During a thrilling team building trip with my colleagues, one of the activities I had to complete was a zip wire ride, set up between two trees. I eagerly donned the gear for the ride, with my steel toe boots, helmet, hand gloves, body harness and a safety line all in place. My confidence was overflowing. I had seen people do it on TV and imagined that it would be easy. Also, some of my colleagues had also gone ahead of me on the activity and appeared to enjoy the ride.

When I got to the launch pad on top one of the trees, my confidence level dropped below zero. Palpable fear had a firm grip on me. I couldn’t take the ‘step of faith’ to leave the pad. I practically had to be coerced to continue the ride as I seriously considered aborting the launch.

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So, what was I afraid of? The fact is that I had NOTHING to be afraid of. My brain just chose to be temporarily ignorant of the fact that I had several lines of defence with my safety gear and ultimately, the body harness and safety line would keep me safely suspended in the air if anything went wrong. My fear was completely unfounded. If only I had stepped back to reason around the circumstances, I would have realized that there was indeed no need to fear and calmed myself down. Well, I eventually managed to get off the launch pad and completed the ride safely as expected.

Fear resulting from ignorance is what Elisha’s servant experienced in 2 Kings 6:15 until his eyes were opened and he saw the hordes of horses and chariots of fire that were at their service. With this realization, he ‘informed’ his fears and went about his business with the courage and boldness of a lion. No evil could befall them, despite the number of enemies that surrounded them. We know how the story ends.

Fear resulting from ignorance made 10 out of 12 spies see themselves as grasshoppers compared to the giants in the promised land. They ultimately did not set foot in the promised land. Joshua and Caleb experienced the same giants, acknowledged that there were giants in the land but they ‘informed’ the fear of giants with the knowledge of God’s ability and obtained their inheritance in the land flowing with milk and honey.

On the flip side, Daniel and the three Hebrew boys had some level of knowledge that completely annihilated ignorance. They had no modicum of fear no matter the fire that they faced or the danger of the lions’ den, because they knew God. They knew what God could do. They knew that God would never leave them nor forsake them. They knew that God had good thoughts and plans for them, to give them an expected end. They knew that God would deliver them from the many afflictions that they had to face. They knew the God in whom they believed and were persuaded that he could keep whatever was committed to Him. They knew more than what they had been told about God. They knew God for themselves. They way John knew Jesus and boldly declared:

We proclaim to you the one who existed from the beginning, whom we have heard and seen. We saw him with our own eyes and touched him with our own hands. He is the Word of life. 1 John 1:1 [NLT]

With this type of knowledge, there is no way fear can result from ignorance, because we will always have superior knowledge with which we can inform our fears. Situations will always arise that will test this resolve, but we can rest assured that God has not changed and He will not change. We will be in desperate situations if our knowledge bank is empty and there is nothing with which we can inform our fears.

Daniel and his friends didn’t just stumble upon the knowledge of God and we will not stumble upon this knowledge either. It takes diligent, consistent study and our aim should be to ‘Study to show ourselves approved unto God…rightly dividing the Word of truth’ 2 Tim 2:15. The way a house is built from its foundation one brick at a time, that’s the way we will develop the knowledge of God (precept upon precept, line upon line) with which we can inform all fears and stand our ground victoriously. Unfortunately, if we cannot inform our fears, our fears will inform us and rule our lives. It should not be so, because “ the Word is near us, it is in our mouths and in our hearts…” Romans 10:8

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I WANT THAT…

SALAD! Now that’s something I really really longed for when I was much younger. Unfortunately, the closest I ever got to it then was hearing about it from my primary school classmates. It was never part of our meal plan because it was a luxury back then and it just wasn’t one of the things my parents could be bothered about.

The fact is that I actually never knew what it looked or tasted like, but I seriously wanted it, simply because I knew some of my classmates were enjoying it regularly. Another fact is that though I never had salad, I never lacked food to eat and my parents did the very best they could within their means.

Fast forward to the day I finally had the opportunity to fall on vegetable salad, I could not understand why I actually thought I was missing something. There was no light bulb moment and there were no drum rolls in my ears. At the heart of the craving was the fact that someone else had it and I felt I should have it too.

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The feeling or craving that I had in those early days is similar to the feeling we have as adults when we want something we feel we should have, especially when our contemporaries are enjoying the very same things. It could be anything ranging from position, car, real estate, job, network, children and spouse to clothes and holidays.  When we don’t have it, we feel as if we are missing something great. When we eventually get it, buyer’s remorse sets in.

This feeling is a very good breeding ground for ingratitude and envy. We unconsciously become blind-sided by those things that we don’t have. We fail to enjoy the moment and thank God for where we are and for the things that we have. The promises of God fade from our vision and begin to appear unreal. Promises such as:

“For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope”. Jer 29:11 (NLT)

“So don’t worry about these things, saying, ‘What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?’ These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Matt 6: 31-32 (NLT)

And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. Romans 8:28 (NLT)

Jesus knew that the days of such feelings will come, so we already have this warning in Luke 12:15

Speaking to the people, he went on, “Take care! Protect yourself against the least bit of greed. Life is not defined by what you have, even when you have a lot.” (MSG)

Paul also lent his voice in his letter to Timothy

 Yet true godliness with contentment is itself great wealth.  After all, we brought nothing with us when we came into the world, and we can’t take anything with us when we leave it. 1Tim 6: 6 -7 (NLT)

What is it that I don’t have right now that I desire to have? Instead of dwelling on those things, I can choose to take a step back and instead think of the things that I have and give God praise for them. If we Meditate on the love and sovereign power of the ALL SUFFICIENT GOD, this will help us magnify God instead of the challenges and the peace of God that passes all understanding will flood our hearts.

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ADAM’S APPLE

For some reason, I grew up believing that Adam was not at home when Eve ate the forbidden fruit; he was probably at work or just taking a routine walk around the garden. The version of the story that was in my mind was that Eve was alone when she was conned and convinced by the serpent to take that bite that changed everything. She took the fruit, enjoyed the first bite and then kept the remaining portion to be shared with Adam on his return. When Adam came home, he took a bite and behold, their eyes were suddenly opened…and we know how the story develops from there.

You can imagine how shocked I was when I realized that I was wrong:

The woman was convinced. She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. So she took some of the fruit and ate it. Then she gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it, too. Genesis 3:6 (NLT)

So, Adam was standing there, practically watching his beloved wife going off on the wrong trail and he could not intervene and correct her. Remember that he had earlier on described her as “This one is bone from my bone, and flesh from my flesh! She will be called ‘woman,’ because she was taken from ‘man.’” (Gen 2: 23), yet that extravagant display of affection did not translate to any modicum of correction.

Why is it that Adam could not correct Eve? I don’t know the answer, but I know that the answer will be similar to the reason why Sapphira could not challenge Ananias when he suggested that they should keep some of the money from the sale of their property to themselves and tell the apostles that they brought 100%:

But there was a certain man named Ananias who, with his wife, Sapphira, sold some property.  He brought part of the money to the apostles, claiming it was the full amount. With his wife’s consent, he kept the rest. Acts 5: 1-2 (NLT)

One of the best things that can happen to us is to have friends or associates that can tell us every shade of truth that we need to hear at every point in time, especially when we are going off track. We need such people, not willing accomplices that always want to make us look good and feel good. If we don’t have such associates, one of the probable reasons is that we may not have handled past corrections or criticisms well and they are now scared of offending us. It’s also possible that we have created a shield of defence around ourselves that sends a message to people that we are irreproachable and beyond correction.

We need to make every effort to surround ourselves with people that will bluntly refuse to be willing accomplices; people that will not be clapping for us as we’re going off track at full throttle. We need people that can look us in the face and tell us the plain truth, no matter how we feel. We can consciously create the environment that will make that happen. It’s all in our hands.

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HORSE BLINDERS

I once watched a very hilarious video of a race for babies that were expected to crawl to their mums at the end of the race track. Expectedly, the babies just wanted to have fun and did everything but remain in their race tracks. Some of them even turned around and went the wrong way, driven by where they felt they would get more excitement. If anyone of them made it to the end of the race track, it would be a miracle 😊.

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That’s just so similar to putting a horse on the race track without Blinders and expecting the horse to finish the race. Horses have peripheral vision and are able to see things happening beside them and to some extent behind them. As a result of this, they are easily distracted or spooked. It’s so easy for them to run off course unless they are made to remain focussed. That’s where the blinders come in. The blinders are carefully crafted to shut out every distraction for the horses, leaving enough space for them to be able to only look forward.

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We just got off the mark for 2018 and we have a long race track ahead of us – There’s no limit to what we can achieve in this year! The extent to which we will achieve our set goals depends greatly on our ability to remain focussed on staying on the race track and consistently moving in the right direction. Distractions will never be in short supply, we will have to develop our own blinders that will help us to remain focussed on the finishing line. It is a definitive conscious choice that we have to make.

No one sets goals with plans to fail in hitting the target. However, we easily get distracted and side-tracked by so many other little things and ultimately set ourselves up for spectacular failure. In 1 Kings 20: 39 – 40, a man was given a simple unambiguous task of guarding a man, but he got busy with other nice things, failed at the primary task.

As the king passed by, the prophet called out to him, “Sir, I was in the thick of battle, and suddenly a man brought me a prisoner. He said, ‘Guard this man; if for any reason he gets away, you will either die or pay a fine of seventy-five pounds[c] of silver!’  But while I was busy doing something else, the prisoner disappeared!” “Well, it’s your own fault,” the king replied. “You have brought the judgment on yourself.” (1Kings 20: 39-40)

If we will successfully hit our 2018 targets, we cannot afford get ourselves occupied doing this and that. Prioritization and focus will remain key to the goals we have set for ourselves this year. Without this, goal setting for 2018 will just end up being another tick in the box – it does not have to be so and the power is in our hands to make it not to be so. Let’s make this an unforgettable year. God’s grace abounds for us.

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IT’S IN THE SMALL STEPS

Joseph had his great dreams, which got him into some trouble with his brothers. He also had his integrity and the fear of the Lord while in Potiphar’s house and he got into even bigger trouble because of that. At the eventful end of all the trouble, I am sure Joseph would have sat back and appreciated God for all he had gone through on the road to occupying a greatly esteemed office.

When Joseph started dreaming, he did not fully understand what the fulfilment of his dreams would be. He did not know that he was going to become next to Pharaoh in authority someday. He did not know there would be a great famine and that he would be the one to save Israel. He did not know that his two sons Ephraim and Manasseh would be the only second generation people to receive allotments like the other sons of Jacob in the Promised Land. One thing he knew for sure was that he feared the Lord and he was not going to do anything to jeopardize that relationship.

In spite of the big dreams, he followed God one step at a time or indeed one phase at a time – from Pit to Potiphar’s house, to Prison and eventually to Pharaoh’s Palace. He was faithful at each stop over on the journey. When the purpose of each phase had been accomplished, he was moved on to the next phase by God.

Abraham’s life followed a similar plot. God told him to leave his father’s house and hit the road. He didn’t ask for the final destination. He allowed God to lead him one step at a time. He just had unshakable faith that God could not lead him astray. He stayed connected to God and we know the rest of the story.

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We have infallible promises in the Bible that tell us that God is committed to answering our prayers from the following verses among so many other verses:

Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. Matt 7: 7 – 8 (NLT)

You can pray for anything, and if you have faith, you will receive it. Matt 21:22(NLT)

At that time you won’t need to ask me for anything. I tell you the truth, you will ask the Father directly, and he will grant your request because you use my name.  You haven’t done this before. Ask, using my name, and you will receive, and you will have abundant joy. John 16: 23 – 24 (NLT)

This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. 1John 5:14 (NIV)

God’s word is true and He has promised to bring us to that expected end. However, whatever happens between our current position and our expected end is part of the whole package. The key to getting to that expected end is staying connected to the source, like Joseph and Abraham did. For some people, it may be a very smooth journey. For others, the package may come with different kinds of pain. If you have a clear picture of your destination and the path to that destination, Congratulations! However, if you don’t understand all the things you experience on your way, just follow the Lord one step at a time… you will eventually get there. God is too faithful to fail and in the words of Nathaniel Bassey; “This God is too good o!”

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